Diary,Pen and Coffee

There are many troubles that everyone faces in their life. It may be big or large, depends. What remains in common are we people dealing with those.

There are times when knowingly or unknowingly we come to such situations that we have never thought of. Many of us try our best to cope up with those bad times, which probably was not ours in most of the cases. Yes, it's true that things changes with time. But you can't help when the time definitely is not yours. But, what we can do is just keep moving !

We have different tracks, different mindset and different views. Nothing is same in anyone. Only one thing in common is those nightmares in everybody's life. It may be small or it may be large. Most of the time, it may not scare us, but make us loose our hope eventually and gradually. And when we loose hope,we know very well what happens next. Because, hope is the only thing that keeps us going throughout. Moreover, if somehow someone snatches away even our small hope that we have built for ourself, how painful it would be ! After that, to give rise to a new hope and working on it, is always a challenging one.

Just because of unfortunately unwanted things happened to us, we have not left with any courage to tell anything about the dream that we have always dreamt of. We have become so introvert even to ourself that we have stopped dreaming something that really amazed us. No matter it would be small or large, if it really amuses you. It's like a high wall which we need to cross. But, before that, we'll have to make sure that there is a cushion beneath, for even if we fall, we should be able to get back again.

Fall or rise is just a part of life which we all surely accept, but are not able to apply it in situations when we lose or when we are down. That's what we have to take care of. Everyone of us gets numerous opportunities. Only thing different is - opportunities are different. But, they are enough to climb you upstairs, as they say. It's one life, we'll be gonna try living it large. Let's make it as a soul resolution of this new year !

May this year bring a lot of sweetness and success in your life. Happy new year !

Until next time.

Love,

Krishnakant .V. Modani

Have you not been able to travel to the places outside your hometown? There may be many of you out there, who has not been out on a trip since a long time for various reasons. Well, I belong to that same group.

Hunger of travel is not easily satisfied. You never have a complete alternative for the same. What you can do is just reduce it.

Taking a long walk in the city specially during night time will surely help you explore yourself. Exploring yourself simply means - knowing about your inner worth. There's a space automatically developed for your inner voice to reach your ear. You can know yourself more better than you usually do. You may also catch up with the view regarding the mistakes you might have done or the steps you have not taken yet. You have a lot to learn from the society.

Wandering in the city by foot always improvises yourself. It gives you an opportunity to know your city more closely. It will actually give you a positive and the honest response to your own questions - how the city is, how the people in the city are, rather than asking about the same to anyone. For me, strolling in the city aimlessly, brings more peace and happiness. It's the time, when your heart speaks to you. Simply means, there is no communication gap between your mind and your heart. There's always something that you grasp automatically when you listen to your heart and that something definitely helps you growing. And now, what if I say, ' you have explored yourself a bit more, just by strolling for no definite reason..!? '.

The only thing I would like to say about this is - there is no better way to explore the city than wandering on the streets, walking through the broad-narrow roads, between the buildings and keep strolling without any reason. Doing this, unknowingly you give rise to a new hope. Also, one of the many purposes of travelling gets satisfied, and that is inner peace and satisfaction.

 
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani

Have you ever thought why many of us thinks about love and relationships all throughout the times ?

Many of us have made it a  culture to fall in love with each other. Many of us idealize love. We see it as a cure or solution to all our problems. Mostly every movies and stories consider it as life's ultimate goal. It is also many times considered as a final solution to all our problems.

Love is an affection. This affection is generated automatically when there is even a small pinch of understanding between two. This affection may be weak or strong, depends on the understanding power of individuals. Even if there is unconditional love from one side, then even a small slight liking is enough to make a bond strong. It's like - a small spark is enough to catch a fire. For example, the bond between Mom and Son is mostly unbreakable. There may also be cases of broken relationship between them. Mostly, there's no hatred. It's like broken, but not unloved.

Many people nowadays believe in short term relationships. They believe in instant makeup and breakups. Where there is lose in faith for each other gives rise to breakups, this is not the only case. Today's generation, just for a change finds a need to breakup. They may be right to their point of view. They wish to feel the change that's what they do.

Well, I personally believe in those relationships that keeps you alive and motivated throughout. Strong and healthy love will surely give you enough motivation, that you may feel the changed atmosphere every time. I have even noticed, a sensible relationship always take you and keep you to the right path. There's enough space for all the peace, sorrows and secrets to be shared and negatives are dissolved there itself by making an appropriate discussion.

Don't you think it's much better to wait for that relation which can lead you towards your goal as well ? Why there is even a need for those relations which doesn't give you goose bumps to move forward every single time? Well, I always prefer to stay back from those short term goals, because it may hurt unnecessarily. It may set you back. What can be more hurtful when your rare inexplicable love hits you back in anti..!

   

Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani

World is growing too faster. Enough challenges come in everyone's life. Struggle is a part of life. There are too many people depressed in the present world. There is a tremendous need to find out mental peace. Most people don't understand what the inner peace is.

Before reading this blog, you guys may think what is the need of inner peace? You may also have a thought in mind like - We don't want inner peace, because we want to be active and alive. You may be afraid that it might make you passive and take all the fun from your life. You may also prefer your mind to be active and restless, not calm.

Inner peace means there is no space for overthinking and too much analyzing of every situation. It means no running from one thought to another, constantly thinking about some past incident, no constant dwelling on hurts and what people said or did. It means no waste of time and energy on unimportant and meaningless thoughts.

Don't you think its better than being stressed, anxious with your mind constantly running from one thought to another?

The general and the most common step people think about relaxation is simply lie down on bed and just watch T.V. Well, that will reduce stress, but not to a great extent. One can simply do some sort of exercises, yoga or play some outdoor games.

The most fascinating technique, which I personally believe, to reduce stress and keep myself alive, is sitting alone in silence, listen to the music. Travelling is also one of the best technique to give rise to our inner peace, awaken the thriller inside you and give rise to new desires. Keeping yourself away from the worldly activities for a while will surely rejuvenate you and give you a new essence of living ! The best thing I like about coastal areas is, listening to the sound of waves and feel the fresh air. More interesting part is - ' you have to come aside of the worldly environment to enjoy it..! '    

Life is short instead. Why should we waste our time and energy on the wrong things and wrong people. Just enjoy the life however it is. Let the situations come, try finding out new ways and stay away from the materialistic world and careless people. Let us try making our life large enough, rather hoping for long one.

Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani

     
Yes...we all come across many people. We interact with each other,but these interactions won't be same all the time with everyone we meet. Some bondings becomes good enough to get a layer of toppings of mischievousness. 'Annoyance' there, makes space for love !

   
We always try to get that someone special, with whom we wanna spend some quality time, share our talks, share our knowledge and even share our daily routines. Can you just imagine how lucky are those who have got some peaceful ears to listen to their souls, except one's family!!? Well, these would be very easy for some, while it becomes quite difficult for many of us.

       
It becomes really tough when there's no one to listen to your stories. There should be a good relation with everyone. Good relation doesn't means always to be of a sweet, humble kind. A good healthy relation is full of joy, sorrows and emotions. In short, relation should be in a way that makes you feel free enough to share all your views.

      
Lucky are those who have really got FRIENDS who they really admire, the one who they have thought of. Some people who come in our life just gets close enough within a small span of time, that we don't even want to lose them anymore. Even, the mistakes and faults in them becomes blur enough, infront of their smile. But, at the same time, their ignorance hurts you a lot. It becomes nearly impossible to get rid off that scars.

  

        

Until next time,

          We live in a loud and distracting world, where silence is increasingly difficult to come by and that may be negatively affecting our health. Think about it: How many moments each day do you spend in total silence?

       

          Rabindranath Tagore, the great Indian poet, said, “Every day wash your soul in silence.” What a good thought that is!

      

          I believe there is a great power in silence. It feels up the mind with positivity. Making out time for silence is making time for yourself, which is one of the best way to invest your time. No matter how hard you work, what struggles you make, you will feel free if only if you make time for yourself.

         

          It's quiet interesting to live alone for a while. Many thoughts runs in your mind. Your mind automatically tries to find the answers for your each questions, by giving you several alternatives. Only thing you need is to make a choice. That choice completely depends on you. That's the reason why it's said - Silence gives the answer !

       

         Being in silence makes me feel and realize each and every moments. You can just feel the magic in the air. Your mind just fills by positivity and you become ready for accepting challenges.If you want to master pressure, I would urge you to yield yourself everyday to the silence of God.Every family should have a quiet time every day. Everyone in business or in any place of work, could well have a quiet time each day in his office. Just shut the door, push the papers aside, and be silent.

        

         A person communing with the silence will hear right things in it and find new peace.That's the reason why I prefer to live alone many times, apart from the crowd. That's one of the thing I enjoy completely !

                                                                            

Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani

'Loneliness' - thing I love the most.May be it's strange thing for many of you reading this article. By the way, I have to take this time out, for the things I have experienced, and things that haven't occurred yet. 

 
 Staying alone isn't terrible for me. I remember one of my major decision to go Kota after my 10th standard for higher studies. My another decision connected to it was to stay alone. I was all set to stay alone in the city to study, in a single room without sharing it with anyone. I didn't have any idea about the place I was going to. I was accompanied by my mom and dad. When I reached the city, the same evening I was left alone. That same evening I have cried harder and harder in the room - thing I have never talked about to anyone. Blaming on my own decisions...but, had a fear of quiting my studies too. But after few days I became quite comfortable there. My own decisions taught me not to lose hope. Though I got a failure, I'm still happy for the decisions I took, because it taught me how to stay alone with peace. It made me more stronger within.

I still prefer to stay alone and do the things I'm interested in. That's my way of seeking happiness. Moreover, when you are alone, many times you get depressed. I swear.., I even don't know how sometimes I get motivated without any reason, just thinking about the situations I have been through.

Believe in yourself. There's a long way to go ahead. Take your time. Make room for yourself and run with your own pace.


Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani

Until next time,

     
From a long time,I felt like I was watching the flow of life. The way it goes. Too scared of jumping in and have fun. I was like waiting for the right time to jump into.

I didn't want to jump until success was guaranteed. Decisions which I made always gives me a goosebumps.Whatever the decisions may be,we always want to succeed. Yeah,same thing was with me too. I got quite disappointed when I couldn't succeed. You just can't blame it on others for that. I make lot of mistakes. I get annoyed on myself too. Yet, I have lots of things which I have experienced. Happy for those. Happy for my decisions,for it gave me experience and maturity at an early ages.

Situations and circumstances teaches us a lot. People's behavior also gets added up.These days a small achievement is like a pleasure.I may say - hope rather than to expect more from ourselves. There is difference between hope and expectations.Hope is basically a wishful thinking. It's about dreams,but there is a feeling of uncertainty revolving around it. Expectations involves probability.

     
You will surely get a lot of chances,make an optimum use of it and stay happy.

Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani

'It's way easy to say than to do' - so true this phrase is ! Taking a particular actions may be much easy. But, working on some of them is definitely a tough task. That task is the phase or process of developing ourselves. Working hard in such phases, helps us develop ourself.


The most basic and important part of success is progress. Progress is the steps towards success. There is no alternative to success without progress.

Progress has to be achieved daily inorder to reach your destination.Future will definitely come. You are the right person to make how your future should look like when it comes...

We are the architect of our own. Yes,architect of your own life! Will make our own roads,not straight one. But, with ups and downs,right and left..! Because we enjoy more in roller coaster rather than in train..!!

Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani

Way the days goes...It many times becomes difficult to live a life we thought of...Days won't go as how we always think it should be. Situations may be at times even worst that you may have not even imagined.This is the time you try to get a support of someone's shoulder.This is the natural thing people do,when depressed. Well,do try to do those things from which you feel comfortable and real again..!

Until next time,

Love.

Krishnakant .V. Modan