Have you ever thought why many of us thinks about love and relationships all throughout the times ?
Many of us have made it a culture to fall in love with each other. Many of us idealize love. We see it as a cure or solution to all our problems. Mostly every movies and stories consider it as life's ultimate goal. It is also many times considered as a final solution to all our problems.
Love is an affection. This affection is generated automatically when there is even a small pinch of understanding between two. This affection may be weak or strong, depends on the understanding power of individuals. Even if there is unconditional love from one side, then even a small slight liking is enough to make a bond strong. It's like - a small spark is enough to catch a fire. For example, the bond between Mom and Son is mostly unbreakable. There may also be cases of broken relationship between them. Mostly, there's no hatred. It's like broken, but not unloved.
Many people nowadays believe in short term relationships. They believe in instant makeup and breakups. Where there is lose in faith for each other gives rise to breakups, this is not the only case. Today's generation, just for a change finds a need to breakup. They may be right to their point of view. They wish to feel the change that's what they do.
Well, I personally believe in those relationships that keeps you alive and motivated throughout. Strong and healthy love will surely give you enough motivation, that you may feel the changed atmosphere every time. I have even noticed, a sensible relationship always take you and keep you to the right path. There's enough space for all the peace, sorrows and secrets to be shared and negatives are dissolved there itself by making an appropriate discussion.
Don't you think it's much better to wait for that relation which can lead you towards your goal as well ? Why there is even a need for those relations which doesn't give you goose bumps to move forward every single time? Well, I always prefer to stay back from those short term goals, because it may hurt unnecessarily. It may set you back. What can be more hurtful when your rare inexplicable love hits you back in anti..!
Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani