Diary,Pen and Coffee

In the continue long run, we often come to a point when we really realize that we have changed ourselves a lot in the rapid stream of life. We can relate this flow of life with the river. Sometimes it may be a rapid flow, denoting the stress free moments, while sometimes it may come across challenges in the form of hurdles like rocks, which may slower the speed of the flow. But, it doesn't means life of river ends there. Our life is as mysterious like the river. Journey of the river ends when it actually meets the Sea or the Ocean, which has no movement. That's when the life of people comes to an end, when there is no ups and downs.

We do get so busy in our work, we enjoy, many times we get bored and even get frustrated enough. Combine action of all these makes us realize our pasts. It takes us to the times when we had everything easily available. If you ask me, hell yeah..! I miss my olden days, the older me, those old people. The most fascinating thing being a kid is the innocence ! They don't even clearly know what is good and what is bad. Unknowingly, they actually just don't care about anything. They live and do things as per their wishes. This was the real happiness for me and will always be.

As of now we get matured enough, lot of conflict of emotions arise in our mind. Generally conflict of emotions gets automatically developed when there is difference in the level of maturity between two. Various questions arises in our mind at every damn single little things like - who, whom, how, when, what and where. And, also a time comes when we have nothing to talk about. Here we come and try sitting alone for a while in silence. This is the thing I mostly do. I love sitting alone in silence with the understandable person, right from my childhood.

Everyone have something to learn from their pasts. Like, I really miss the dedication I used to give to my work. Here's one memory I would like to share with you all - During my 8th and 9th standards, I used to ride bicycle a lot. Inorder to increase my height at least to an optimum level, my uncle suggested me to make almost 20-25 rounds per day of our colony ! I took it so seriously, that I used to make 25+ rounds along with my friend, who used to join me almost everytime. We used to make gossips and do all the monkey businesses (mischiefs) together. Unknowingly, we created lot of memories. The way we used to talk to people were horrible enough. When we recall those days, we get reasons to laugh out a lot !! There are many moments which we create all the time. Today's mischiefs will always be remembered tomorrow !

But, there are surely many things that I have to learn back from the pasts, thinking about which gives me goosebumps everytime. I'm sure, same must be with you all too. But yes, those days ain't gonna come back ! Let us try to make our present moments more memorable. As they say, everything will come back to the right place. Just keep calm and trust the process !

Until next time,

Love.

Krishnakant .V. Modani

I think, I don't need make you believe that most of us get so nervous and worry at times while working on something new, talking to strangers or even while doing our regular activities. If you don't get nervous, that's a good positive thing in you. Nervousness may have multiple reasons.  

Not every person you meet may accept you, they may even bully you instead. They may not show signs of positivity for you trying new things from your side. It's difficult to say if they expect something from you or not. Depends on the crowd, whether it's already a known one or totally unknown to you.

They may try to suppress you and let you down. They may try to make you lose your confidence. Thereby not even letting you dream once more. Because when you loose your confidence, your mind get disturbed and you are not in a state to take a step further.

Its totally fine, to laugh at yourself, at your own mistakes. This is what keeps you in move, rather being stuck in a place for a long time. If we notice, there is nothing wrong to say that world is divided into two types of people. One category is of those who feel free to laugh at themselves and another is of those who are bit secured and serious about their lifestyle. Its pretty surprising that scientific studies on good health have proved that people who laugh out at their own mistakes, at their lose, seems to be more healthier.

Some of you may think - how stupid act it is to laugh out at your own mistakes. Let me clear, laughing at yourself is all fine, it will always keep you going. But, learning from that mistake will definitely boost you up ! It's the attitude of we people to take things too seriously. Yes, I understand, its a necessary to be serious at times. But, when the things are only up to you and not affecting the people around and most importantly, it's stopping you from within, you are all free to lose your seriousness to move ahead and get rid out of those hard times. Crack out in those situations. It's nothing weird doing that.

Health Scientists even say - It boosts your short term memory ! Now, that's something important. Don't you think so? If you take couple of minutes to think logically, you'll find its definitely true ! Because, laughing makes you lose your worries and helps you live in present. Now being at present, always keeps your mind fresh and healthy. Therefore, boosting up your memory.

So, hope you guys always keep smiling and laughing. Enjoy your days and have lots of fun. Spend times with your loved ones, your family and friends. One thing I would like to say - " Point out your mistakes and get your reasons to laugh ! "

Take care !


Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani

There are many troubles that everyone faces in their life. It may be big or large, depends. What remains in common are we people dealing with those.

There are times when knowingly or unknowingly we come to such situations that we have never thought of. Many of us try our best to cope up with those bad times, which probably was not ours in most of the cases. Yes, it's true that things changes with time. But you can't help when the time definitely is not yours. But, what we can do is just keep moving !

We have different tracks, different mindset and different views. Nothing is same in anyone. Only one thing in common is those nightmares in everybody's life. It may be small or it may be large. Most of the time, it may not scare us, but make us loose our hope eventually and gradually. And when we loose hope,we know very well what happens next. Because, hope is the only thing that keeps us going throughout. Moreover, if somehow someone snatches away even our small hope that we have built for ourself, how painful it would be ! After that, to give rise to a new hope and working on it, is always a challenging one.

Just because of unfortunately unwanted things happened to us, we have not left with any courage to tell anything about the dream that we have always dreamt of. We have become so introvert even to ourself that we have stopped dreaming something that really amazed us. No matter it would be small or large, if it really amuses you. It's like a high wall which we need to cross. But, before that, we'll have to make sure that there is a cushion beneath, for even if we fall, we should be able to get back again.

Fall or rise is just a part of life which we all surely accept, but are not able to apply it in situations when we lose or when we are down. That's what we have to take care of. Everyone of us gets numerous opportunities. Only thing different is - opportunities are different. But, they are enough to climb you upstairs, as they say. It's one life, we'll be gonna try living it large. Let's make it as a soul resolution of this new year !

May this year bring a lot of sweetness and success in your life. Happy new year !

Until next time.

Love,

Krishnakant .V. Modani

Have you not been able to travel to the places outside your hometown? There may be many of you out there, who has not been out on a trip since a long time for various reasons. Well, I belong to that same group.

Hunger of travel is not easily satisfied. You never have a complete alternative for the same. What you can do is just reduce it.

Taking a long walk in the city specially during night time will surely help you explore yourself. Exploring yourself simply means - knowing about your inner worth. There's a space automatically developed for your inner voice to reach your ear. You can know yourself more better than you usually do. You may also catch up with the view regarding the mistakes you might have done or the steps you have not taken yet. You have a lot to learn from the society.

Wandering in the city by foot always improvises yourself. It gives you an opportunity to know your city more closely. It will actually give you a positive and the honest response to your own questions - how the city is, how the people in the city are, rather than asking about the same to anyone. For me, strolling in the city aimlessly, brings more peace and happiness. It's the time, when your heart speaks to you. Simply means, there is no communication gap between your mind and your heart. There's always something that you grasp automatically when you listen to your heart and that something definitely helps you growing. And now, what if I say, ' you have explored yourself a bit more, just by strolling for no definite reason..!? '.

The only thing I would like to say about this is - there is no better way to explore the city than wandering on the streets, walking through the broad-narrow roads, between the buildings and keep strolling without any reason. Doing this, unknowingly you give rise to a new hope. Also, one of the many purposes of travelling gets satisfied, and that is inner peace and satisfaction.

 
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani

Have you ever thought why many of us thinks about love and relationships all throughout the times ?

Many of us have made it a  culture to fall in love with each other. Many of us idealize love. We see it as a cure or solution to all our problems. Mostly every movies and stories consider it as life's ultimate goal. It is also many times considered as a final solution to all our problems.

Love is an affection. This affection is generated automatically when there is even a small pinch of understanding between two. This affection may be weak or strong, depends on the understanding power of individuals. Even if there is unconditional love from one side, then even a small slight liking is enough to make a bond strong. It's like - a small spark is enough to catch a fire. For example, the bond between Mom and Son is mostly unbreakable. There may also be cases of broken relationship between them. Mostly, there's no hatred. It's like broken, but not unloved.

Many people nowadays believe in short term relationships. They believe in instant makeup and breakups. Where there is lose in faith for each other gives rise to breakups, this is not the only case. Today's generation, just for a change finds a need to breakup. They may be right to their point of view. They wish to feel the change that's what they do.

Well, I personally believe in those relationships that keeps you alive and motivated throughout. Strong and healthy love will surely give you enough motivation, that you may feel the changed atmosphere every time. I have even noticed, a sensible relationship always take you and keep you to the right path. There's enough space for all the peace, sorrows and secrets to be shared and negatives are dissolved there itself by making an appropriate discussion.

Don't you think it's much better to wait for that relation which can lead you towards your goal as well ? Why there is even a need for those relations which doesn't give you goose bumps to move forward every single time? Well, I always prefer to stay back from those short term goals, because it may hurt unnecessarily. It may set you back. What can be more hurtful when your rare inexplicable love hits you back in anti..!

   

Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani