Diary,Pen and Coffee

In the continue long run, we often come to a point when we really realize that we have changed ourselves a lot in the rapid stream of life. We can relate this flow of life with the river. Sometimes it may be a rapid flow, denoting the stress free moments, while sometimes it may come across challenges in the form of hurdles like rocks, which may slower the speed of the flow. But, it doesn't means life of river ends there. Our life is as mysterious like the river. Journey of the river ends when it actually meets the Sea or the Ocean, which has no movement. That's when the life of people comes to an end, when there is no ups and downs.

We do get so busy in our work, we enjoy, many times we get bored and even get frustrated enough. Combine action of all these makes us realize our pasts. It takes us to the times when we had everything easily available. If you ask me, hell yeah..! I miss my olden days, the older me, those old people. The most fascinating thing being a kid is the innocence ! They don't even clearly know what is good and what is bad. Unknowingly, they actually just don't care about anything. They live and do things as per their wishes. This was the real happiness for me and will always be.

As of now we get matured enough, lot of conflict of emotions arise in our mind. Generally conflict of emotions gets automatically developed when there is difference in the level of maturity between two. Various questions arises in our mind at every damn single little things like - who, whom, how, when, what and where. And, also a time comes when we have nothing to talk about. Here we come and try sitting alone for a while in silence. This is the thing I mostly do. I love sitting alone in silence with the understandable person, right from my childhood.

Everyone have something to learn from their pasts. Like, I really miss the dedication I used to give to my work. Here's one memory I would like to share with you all - During my 8th and 9th standards, I used to ride bicycle a lot. Inorder to increase my height at least to an optimum level, my uncle suggested me to make almost 20-25 rounds per day of our colony ! I took it so seriously, that I used to make 25+ rounds along with my friend, who used to join me almost everytime. We used to make gossips and do all the monkey businesses (mischiefs) together. Unknowingly, we created lot of memories. The way we used to talk to people were horrible enough. When we recall those days, we get reasons to laugh out a lot !! There are many moments which we create all the time. Today's mischiefs will always be remembered tomorrow !

But, there are surely many things that I have to learn back from the pasts, thinking about which gives me goosebumps everytime. I'm sure, same must be with you all too. But yes, those days ain't gonna come back ! Let us try to make our present moments more memorable. As they say, everything will come back to the right place. Just keep calm and trust the process !

Until next time,

Love.

Krishnakant .V. Modani

I think, I don't need make you believe that most of us get so nervous and worry at times while working on something new, talking to strangers or even while doing our regular activities. If you don't get nervous, that's a good positive thing in you. Nervousness may have multiple reasons.  

Not every person you meet may accept you, they may even bully you instead. They may not show signs of positivity for you trying new things from your side. It's difficult to say if they expect something from you or not. Depends on the crowd, whether it's already a known one or totally unknown to you.

They may try to suppress you and let you down. They may try to make you lose your confidence. Thereby not even letting you dream once more. Because when you loose your confidence, your mind get disturbed and you are not in a state to take a step further.

Its totally fine, to laugh at yourself, at your own mistakes. This is what keeps you in move, rather being stuck in a place for a long time. If we notice, there is nothing wrong to say that world is divided into two types of people. One category is of those who feel free to laugh at themselves and another is of those who are bit secured and serious about their lifestyle. Its pretty surprising that scientific studies on good health have proved that people who laugh out at their own mistakes, at their lose, seems to be more healthier.

Some of you may think - how stupid act it is to laugh out at your own mistakes. Let me clear, laughing at yourself is all fine, it will always keep you going. But, learning from that mistake will definitely boost you up ! It's the attitude of we people to take things too seriously. Yes, I understand, its a necessary to be serious at times. But, when the things are only up to you and not affecting the people around and most importantly, it's stopping you from within, you are all free to lose your seriousness to move ahead and get rid out of those hard times. Crack out in those situations. It's nothing weird doing that.

Health Scientists even say - It boosts your short term memory ! Now, that's something important. Don't you think so? If you take couple of minutes to think logically, you'll find its definitely true ! Because, laughing makes you lose your worries and helps you live in present. Now being at present, always keeps your mind fresh and healthy. Therefore, boosting up your memory.

So, hope you guys always keep smiling and laughing. Enjoy your days and have lots of fun. Spend times with your loved ones, your family and friends. One thing I would like to say - " Point out your mistakes and get your reasons to laugh ! "

Take care !


Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani