Some of us may have gone through the phase or might be going through the phase where many people keep trying to pull you down unnecessarily. It must be due to jealousy for the things that they don't have, but we do. They start proving our points wrong most often, stop helping us, sometimes make other people deny from helping when we are actually in need, make mockery of us in a group or in public. In short, they try to let us down, in all the possible ways.
Personally, have got a huge ongoing collection of those kinds, since my school days. Always tried to be a part of their conversations, talked with them, but their treatment was like a foul smell...Since then, I avoid going near those groups, those people, which creates unnecessary disturbance in mind. Have also understood one most important thing to deal with - not every people you meet may accept you !
There are also those evil minded people who believe - letting someone down will help them reach to the top. They are those, who don't want to grow up, but also don't let their successor one to grow. They can't see the rapid growth of others. They may ignore you, your talent, your specialities. But, believe me they definitely can't ignore it from within. Since the inner space in their mind is fully filled, they start reflecting the same outside. Those people who try to curb the growth of another ones, are the morons. Because they don't understand one simple thing that - Once they have pressed the trigger, bullet will definitely shoot with it's full power ! Who knows...the person who is down today, may reach to a great height one day !
Who doesn't want a company of someone of our age groups, to understand us, be with us in our hard times as well as in the good times ! I believe, lucky are those who have got someone always with them in the worst situations as well as to celebrate the good times with them ! Because, in good times, everyone appreciates. Ask the real essence of joy to those who are mutually connected with each other since their bad times and now living a good time together..!!
Think truly, do we belong to the category which ignores or underestimates anyone around us? If its yes, hope we may opt for the better perspective that is - living with togetherness !
Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani