It's difficult to say that one is born totally with a peaceful soul. Though we may believe we are, it's totally not. Deep inside, we do believe that it was so much better to be a child. At least, they never make any comparisons amongst anyone. There is no one to put you in distress. There is no one to suppress you. That was the time when you were completely you. You used to do things according to your will. There were no one to put you down. We don't even used to think of the consequences before doing any work. We had completely freedom at that time. But, as the time passed by, though you say you have complete freedom, it's surely not. It's until the surrounding environment which put these strange quality and behavior inside us. Nowadays, the human atmosphere around seems to be polluted. Everyone around is running a race, competing with each other, no matter whatever the hell it takes to bring themselves to the top. Even if it is a matter of putting someone down, they don't care. This is one of the reason why people don't try to help each other and live together. Because, everyone is busy to make out their way towards victory.
Don't you think, life would be damn easy, if there are no comparisons made on any basis ? Believe it or not, but we are always in a fear of something. Something that keeps us stopping from within. Something that never let us create opportunities or utilize the opportunities. People, we are here just not only to compete with each other. There are many more things that matters in everybody's life. How blissful life would be, if there would be no jealousy among anyone. Nowadays, wherever I go, I find people acting so so awkward and showing their weirdly behavior. Like, hell..! In which generation they are living in ! People having nothing worth, still lives in their weird attitude rather opting to work hard on themselves.
As we grow up, slowly slowly we become matured enough. It becomes difficult to be our own self. We have to think at least twice before taking any step, as it may affect the people around us and even us. Those were the times when our big mistakes were considered to be small and neglected. But now, even our small mistakes are considered to be a big one and many times never neglected. It's a matter of shame that people judge us by the company we keep. Seriously, is this the generation we are living in !? People these days just talk too much. Nobody would talk about the overall development. Because their limit is just up to themselves. All are just behind completing their own needs. All we need is to change those kinds of attitude and consider everyone as our own people.
It's one life and even too short to develop hatred for others and lost ourselves. Try to take positive vibes from the past and bring them in use. Hope many things will sort out automatically.
Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani