Diary,Pen and Coffee

In the continue long run, we often come to a point when we really realize that we have changed ourselves a lot in the rapid stream of life. We can relate this flow of life with the river. Sometimes it may be a rapid flow, denoting the stress free moments, while sometimes it may come across challenges in the form of hurdles like rocks, which may slower the speed of the flow. But, it doesn't means life of river ends there. Our life is as mysterious like the river. Journey of the river ends when it actually meets the Sea or the Ocean, which has no movement. That's when the life of people comes to an end, when there is no ups and downs.

We do get so busy in our work, we enjoy, many times we get bored and even get frustrated enough. Combine action of all these makes us realize our pasts. It takes us to the times when we had everything easily available. If you ask me, hell yeah..! I miss my olden days, the older me, those old people. The most fascinating thing being a kid is the innocence ! They don't even clearly know what is good and what is bad. Unknowingly, they actually just don't care about anything. They live and do things as per their wishes. This was the real happiness for me and will always be.

As of now we get matured enough, lot of conflict of emotions arise in our mind. Generally conflict of emotions gets automatically developed when there is difference in the level of maturity between two. Various questions arises in our mind at every damn single little things like - who, whom, how, when, what and where. And, also a time comes when we have nothing to talk about. Here we come and try sitting alone for a while in silence. This is the thing I mostly do. I love sitting alone in silence with the understandable person, right from my childhood.

Everyone have something to learn from their pasts. Like, I really miss the dedication I used to give to my work. Here's one memory I would like to share with you all - During my 8th and 9th standards, I used to ride bicycle a lot. Inorder to increase my height at least to an optimum level, my uncle suggested me to make almost 20-25 rounds per day of our colony ! I took it so seriously, that I used to make 25+ rounds along with my friend, who used to join me almost everytime. We used to make gossips and do all the monkey businesses (mischiefs) together. Unknowingly, we created lot of memories. The way we used to talk to people were horrible enough. When we recall those days, we get reasons to laugh out a lot !! There are many moments which we create all the time. Today's mischiefs will always be remembered tomorrow !

But, there are surely many things that I have to learn back from the pasts, thinking about which gives me goosebumps everytime. I'm sure, same must be with you all too. But yes, those days ain't gonna come back ! Let us try to make our present moments more memorable. As they say, everything will come back to the right place. Just keep calm and trust the process !

Until next time,

Love.

Krishnakant .V. Modani

Have you ever thought why many of us thinks about love and relationships all throughout the times ?

Many of us have made it a  culture to fall in love with each other. Many of us idealize love. We see it as a cure or solution to all our problems. Mostly every movies and stories consider it as life's ultimate goal. It is also many times considered as a final solution to all our problems.

Love is an affection. This affection is generated automatically when there is even a small pinch of understanding between two. This affection may be weak or strong, depends on the understanding power of individuals. Even if there is unconditional love from one side, then even a small slight liking is enough to make a bond strong. It's like - a small spark is enough to catch a fire. For example, the bond between Mom and Son is mostly unbreakable. There may also be cases of broken relationship between them. Mostly, there's no hatred. It's like broken, but not unloved.

Many people nowadays believe in short term relationships. They believe in instant makeup and breakups. Where there is lose in faith for each other gives rise to breakups, this is not the only case. Today's generation, just for a change finds a need to breakup. They may be right to their point of view. They wish to feel the change that's what they do.

Well, I personally believe in those relationships that keeps you alive and motivated throughout. Strong and healthy love will surely give you enough motivation, that you may feel the changed atmosphere every time. I have even noticed, a sensible relationship always take you and keep you to the right path. There's enough space for all the peace, sorrows and secrets to be shared and negatives are dissolved there itself by making an appropriate discussion.

Don't you think it's much better to wait for that relation which can lead you towards your goal as well ? Why there is even a need for those relations which doesn't give you goose bumps to move forward every single time? Well, I always prefer to stay back from those short term goals, because it may hurt unnecessarily. It may set you back. What can be more hurtful when your rare inexplicable love hits you back in anti..!

   

Until next time,
Love.
Krishnakant .V. Modani